EmpowHer by Richa Chaturvedi

March 8, 2022

Life is unpredictable and yet beautiful which I started living when I started to realise the Secrets of my life which no one told me. So I took time to figure them out and thus, started to experience them now at the middle age with a wish that someone could have told me this earlier, I would have been able to start living much before.

This thought led me to write this article, so I can leave a message of wisdom to all young girls including my daughter. This is new-age gold for you that will make you shine all through your way to the divine.

Without much ado, Here we go-

1. You don’t need men to have an identity! Men and women share a bond or relationship which you both might cherish for Emotional dependence but not to say that they are your identity. You are your own identity.

2. You are incharge of your own happiness! You own your own feelings. It isn’t dependent on any entity outside you.

3. Choose your path to walk on or walk away! Yes you choose what destiny you wish to carve for yourself. Nothing should stop you from taking a decision if you wish to walk from toxic people or places.

4. Have Empathy! Not all will be able to love you enough! Understand that they have their own capacities according to which they are distributing love in this world. Love them as per your capacities.

5. You are free to conquer this whole world. This world belongs to you!

6. Inner Beauty matters! Beauty lies in showing your grit and wisdom not your skin especially when you don’t believe in this attitude. Do what you believe in.

7. You are a warrior so always walk through the aisle with your head up. Don’t let others or any situation pull you down. Walk head up, universe supports who supports themselves.

8. Do not hurt anyone. They too matter! But guard your sacred space so that no one can take you for granted.

9. It’s ok to cry and feel a little low sometimes. But don’t let yourself stay in that zone for long. Collect and bounce back. That’s what strength is!

10. Success depends upon you and not on your destiny. Believe in your karma! Karma is the most powerful!

11. Pursue something with complete dedication or else don’t. Do not stay on things you aren’t convinced with. They create confusion.

12. Do not lose your voice. Your voice is your identity!

13. Never Give Up for what you are passionate for!

14. Do not fear anything or doubt yourself. Have faith you are strong enough to get what you want.

15. Take onus of your own actions and responses. Do not play blame games.

16. It is ok to start a thing at any age. It is never too late to start new things and never too early for experiences to guide you through.

17. It is ok to fail, but it isn’t ok to stop there.

18. Consistency is the key to success.

19. Purity of heart should be reflected through your smile. Let your smile show who you are inside. Women of relevance and wisdom!

20. Give priority to your health and overall wellbeing!

21. Self-confidence is the rarest element. Embrace it to increase it.

The world has never seen a woman of metal like you. Show them what you got inside you!

Kudos to your Identity!

Love

Richa Chaturvedi

Richa is a certified Empowerment Coach and Strategist, A SHERO, A Teacher, A mother and an Empowered woman. Through her experiences, she knows the power of motivation. She is on a mission to Empower you Sheroes by discovering and becoming better versions of yourselves.